Communicate with Your Ex Without Destroying Your Case or Losing Your Mind

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How to communicate strategically with your ex to show with the most powerful evidence that you’re the “best co-parent ever”

(and they’re the problem).

“My Lawyer Says This is the Craziest Case They’ve Ever Had!”

Co-parenting with a toxic ex is nearly impossible.

Wherever you are in the process, your ex’s need to exert control doesn’t just go away once you’re out of the relationship…

Especially if you share custody.

Few attorneys understand how to handle the logic-defying cases involving toxic personality types.

And therapists often don’t recognize the damage their well-meaning advice could cause in your case.

We’re not attorneys or mental health professionals. We’re strategists who fill in the gaps when you’re facing your own personal terrorist.

We navigated our own high-conflict divorces through the treacherous waters of family court and all that followed.

And we’ve spent more than a decade educating ourselves, interviewing hundreds of experts from family law attorneys, to mental health professionals, to judges and custody evaluators and countless others who know the realities of the family court system.

Their wisdom and our own success has empowered our clients and broader community through our coaching, book, podcast, and social media channels.

Our mission is to educate you on how to communicate with your ex the right way - using “court-approved” language - so you can build great evidence for your case, enforce healthy boundaries, and ultimately get yourself and your children through this as unscathed as possible.

Learn the Communication Strategies That Will

**Put Your Case and Your Life Back Into YOUR Hands**

Inside the Workshop

In this FREE workshop, you'll learn how to stop living in constant fear of what might happen if you don’t communicate perfectly or do what your ex wants.

We’ll show you how to:

Make it clear that you’re not the problem
Turn your communication - and your ex's - into powerful evidence
Shield yourself from false claims of parental alienation
Show the impact of your ex’s behavior on your children, and…
How you’re the constructive problem-solver who puts them first

If you're stuck in endless daily battles with a manipulative ex, in or out of court, don't miss this FREE workshop!

It's never too late to shift the power dynamic in your favor, and keep it there.

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Meet Your Hosts

Lisa is a high-conflict divorce strategist and certified domestic violence advocate. She has represented herself in court for several years with unprecedented success, including:

Having her case published in the Connecticut Law Journal and used as legal precedent (an unheard-of achievement for a self-represented litigant).
Presenting live testimony that helped make Connecticut the third state to pass Jennifers’ Law and expand its legal definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.”

After a successful career in technology and financial planning, Chris, a certified high-conflict divorce coach, shifted his attention to helping victims of post-separation abuse protect themselves.

Together, Lisa and Chris also successfully represented themselves when Lisa’s ex sued them for $4 million in defamation, and managed to get the case thrown out.

Been There Got Out has helped hundreds of people navigate the court systems efficiently and effectively, protecting themselves and their children, all while preserving their own sanity.

Hundreds of Domestic Abuse Survivors

Take Back Control Of Their Lives!

_{(The identities of our clients always remain anonymous for their protection and the integrity of their ongoing cases.)}

“He’s moved… I have full decision making… We got child support, school tuition & medical expenses. Best thing is I can parent, make decisions, etc. without an antagonizing ape on my back while he travels the world, disagrees with every little thing I ask for while I solo parent…Y’all are great! Thank you!! Your assistance helped a lot!!”

L.B.

“The referee leaned in my favor on all issues in my motion. The referee’s observations were VERY critical of the other parent, and she picked up on things I didn’t even address in my motion. For the first time, I saw him held accountable... I owe so much of my small victory to your book and coaching. While I know I still have a long road ahead, I am genuinely not afraid to walk it any longer. Thank you both so much.”

A.M.

“This past Sunday, you highlighted for me the fact that me being able to get my ex, using the Our Family Wizard app, to agree to child support, is a big deal. I did this without lawyers, saving myself so much money. I hadn't stopped to realize what a feat I had accomplished. It really gave me more motivation and self-confidence to keep going. So I just, again, want to thank you both for the work you do. It's beyond words the impact you are having on those of us still in the trenches.”

M.O.

“Your team is truly incredible! Your work is priceless, and I cannot emphasize its value enough. I’m incredibly grateful to have discovered you - it has significantly impacted my divorce journey. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.”

F.H.

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